Your ceremony deserves to feel like you.

Soco & Co Ceremony Packages and Pricing

Whether you’re planning a tiny living room wedding or a full-scale celebration, each offering is designed to honor your story with warmth, intention, and depth. Choose the experience that fits the ceremony you’re dreaming of— and the way you want to feel on your wedding day.

The Shoreline

  • A ceremony rooted in the place where love first feels like home—your living room or that of someone who adores you. With up to eight guests gathered close, we create a simple, meaningful hour together. I’ll offer warm opening remarks, you’ll share your vows, exchange rings, say “I do,” and step into marriage wrapped in the presence of your people.

    This is wedding ceremony at its purest: homegrown joy, nothing extra.
    Offered on a sliding scale because every love deserves celebration.

  • The Shoreline is offered on a sliding scale: $350-$750

    Available November-April

    • Sweet and reverent ceremony script (shared in advance if you’d like to make edits!)

    • Vow writing guide

    • Travel in the Portland, OR metro area

    • Marriage license filed accurately on your behalf

The Crossing

  • Designed for couples who want something short, sweet, and full of ease—on the beach, in the woods, or in a cozy venue with a handful of loved ones. You’ll complete a love story questionnaire that helps me anchor your ceremony fully in your love’s joy and wisdom. You may choose an optional reading, and together we’ll move through your vows, ring exchange, “I do’s,” and a joyful pronouncement.

    • Ideal for ~20-60 guests

    • This package is also perfect for elopements!

    • Optional add-ons available

    Travel fees may apply outside the local area

  • $1,350

    Available year-round.

    • In-depth love story questionnaire

    • Personalized ceremony script

    • One custom unity ritual or reading

    • Vow writing support

    • Travel within 60 miles of PDX

    • Virtual rehearsal

    • Marriage license filed accurately on your behalf

Open Waters

  • This is where we go all in. I visit your home, we settle into long-form conversation, and you complete a thoughtful, story-rich questionnaire. A curated gift box arrives at your door, and from these touchpoints, I craft a ceremony that could only belong to each of you—deeply personal, woven from the heart of your relationship.

    • Perfect for weddings, vow renewals, commitment ceremonies or elopements of any size

    • Fully custom ceremony script + structure. Prepare to go off the beaten path!

    • Priority communication and planning support

    • Virtual rehearsal included

    What defines this experience is the depth of our connection and the story we’re able to tell together.

  • $2,800 - Please still inquire for sliding scale options if pricing is a barrier. Some love stories just need this package. You’ll know if it’s for you!

    Available year-round

    • In-person or virtual love story exploration session with Officiant Anna

    • Fully-custom ceremony script + structure

    • Up to three unity rituals and unlimited readings

    • Vow writing support

    • Travel within 60 miles of PDX

    • Virtual rehearsal (invite your team!)

    • Marriage license filed accurately on your behalf

All healthy love is welcome here! No matter which package you choose, you’ll have an officiant who is queer-inclusive, poly-affirming, and proud to stand with you on your big day— and every day after.

So, how do we book, exactly?

  • Start by filling out the inquiry form. I’ll reach out to schedule a free 30-minute consultation where we swap stories, I take copious notes, and you can ask me anything (truly—no question is too weird). After our chat, I’ll send a custom proposal. Once you approve it, submit your deposit, and sign your contract… you’re officially booked!

  • Over the months leading up to your wedding, we build your ceremony together through emails, questionnaires, and meetings (virtual or in-person, depending on your package). I’ll craft your ceremony draft and give you plenty of time to fine-tune it. The week before the big day, we meet for a virtual rehearsal (for The Crossing and Open Waters), talk through every moment, and make sure you feel grounded, confident, and excited.

  • On your wedding day, I arrive early, make fast friends with your vendor team, and come find you for a joyful greeting. When it’s go-time, I welcome your people, open your ceremony with heart, and marry you with all the joy and presence the moment deserves. Then… let the party begin!

Let's do this!

 Frequently Asked Questions

  • Yes. I ask for a 30% non-refundable deposit in order to reserve your date and services. The remaining balance is split into two payments, with the final one due the week before your big day.

  • Yes. If you connect with my work but pricing feels out of reach, please still inquire. I care deeply about the couples I serve, and when it’s a great fit, I do my best to find a way forward that honors both your budget and the value of the work we’ll create together.

  • We both are! It’s your job to obtain your marriage license from the county and to bring it with you to your ceremony. Then, I fill it out and return it to the county on your behalf. More on marriage licenses here!

  • Absolutely. I love hitting the road for love. I include up to 60 miles round-trip from Portland, OR; beyond that, travel is $1.25 per mile. For weddings more than two hours away, I simply ask for reimbursement for overnight accommodations and/or flights so I can show up rested, present, and fully there for you.

  • I am so glad you asked! I have two, and their names are Ray and Tooey. Ray’s missing a leg, Too’s missing an eye, and together they’re a match made in heaven.

Ready to roll? Me too.

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I can’t wait to meet you.